Children and their mindset

Kids are impossible, they are terrible, they are mischievous.. You might have heard people saying this about children, but do you agree with the same? Do you believe they are just headache? Do you think that it’s impossible to handle them?

Well, They are tiny little growing flowers who needs proper manure and timely water to become a fully grown flowers; and that manure and water are nothing but your love, compassion, guidence and freedom to fly. When you restrict them of doing something, you ultimately stopping their brains to expand, which is not at all beneficial for them. Let them explore, allow them to brack the toy car; and learn how it works, it’s mechanism, who knows in future they make better car model.

They are the reflection of your personality, the way you talk, the way you behave, the way you eat, they replicates you. They have not seen the world as much as you did, so they thinks that what their parents agree is true and what they diny for is false. I have experimented several thing with my own son, how he reacts in particular situation. For example, if I beat him, instead of being obayed; he gets more stubborn. If I behave calmly with him he is more likely to listen to my instructions. They are so innocent; infact today morning itself, he asked me that if he could give his few teeth to his sister who has no tooth and she can’t eat chocolates just because of that. 😂 I laughed and said that she will get her own teeth soon.

I’m not saying that parents have to be perfect, ultimately they are slowly gradually learning parenthood, sometimes they get succeed and sometimes they learn from their failures. They need to understand their children and behaviours and treat them accordingly. If your child make a mistake don’t be harsh on her/him, just sit next to him, make him calm and talk to him, make him understand that what he has done is wrong and try not to repeat it again in future. 

If you have kids let me know in the comment box how they are and what sort of their behaviour bothers you the most. I will read all your comments and reply you back.