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How to teach your child Reading

Well for parents, its an arduous task to teach how to read and write, especially during this pandemic period, when kinds cannot go to school and learn these skills. It has added stress in parents’s brain and they are literally became frustrated while thinking about the fact that how their children going to stand out in the rat race, if they would not be able to read and write on time as they are the basic skills children must learn.

I can understand this totally, as I am also a mother of a 4 years old son. Its completely herculean task for a mother who works 9 to 5, do house hold choirs, take care of a family, make breakfast, tiff in and dinner and also have responsibility to teach her kid, attend his online classes and help him doing homework. She get exhausted at the end of the day and may it affects her behavior towards the kid, spouse and family.

One fine day, i was just surfing the internet about the different solutions of teaching my son how to learn reading with an easy and fast as well as proven Technic and I got to know about the program called ”Teach your child to read” (https://40609hogxvnrdp1micwfgcs4si.hop.clickbank.net/), which has caught my immediate attention and I dig deeper into the website, read everything about the program, applied for free trail and found it worthy. After consulting with my spouse I bought the paid program for my Kid and he is really enjoying his learning. Instead of wasting time is watch TV or other devices, I found it productive and fascinating idea to make him engaged it such learning.

I would definitely recommend all my friends and family to join this program if they are worried about their children’s basic learning such as reading. I will put the link of that program to make it easy for my lovely readers.

The link is below; click on to it, read the content of a website, watch the free demo video, get relaxed, think for a moment and then make a decision, because I do not want my readers to blindly trust on anything comes in front of them. Be smart, Be active parents, Be wise, take care of your health and let me know what stuck you the most, what you want me to write about?

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Children and their mindset

Kids are impossible, they are terrible, they are mischievous.. You might have heard people saying this about children, but do you agree with the same? Do you believe they are just headache? Do you think that it’s impossible to handle them?

Well, They are tiny little growing flowers who needs proper manure and timely water to become a fully grown flowers; and that manure and water are nothing but your love, compassion, guidence and freedom to fly. When you restrict them of doing something, you ultimately stopping their brains to expand, which is not at all beneficial for them. Let them explore, allow them to brack the toy car; and learn how it works, it’s mechanism, who knows in future they make better car model.

They are the reflection of your personality, the way you talk, the way you behave, the way you eat, they replicates you. They have not seen the world as much as you did, so they thinks that what their parents agree is true and what they diny for is false. I have experimented several thing with my own son, how he reacts in particular situation. For example, if I beat him, instead of being obayed; he gets more stubborn. If I behave calmly with him he is more likely to listen to my instructions. They are so innocent; infact today morning itself, he asked me that if he could give his few teeth to his sister who has no tooth and she can’t eat chocolates just because of that. 😂 I laughed and said that she will get her own teeth soon.

I’m not saying that parents have to be perfect, ultimately they are slowly gradually learning parenthood, sometimes they get succeed and sometimes they learn from their failures. They need to understand their children and behaviours and treat them accordingly. If your child make a mistake don’t be harsh on her/him, just sit next to him, make him calm and talk to him, make him understand that what he has done is wrong and try not to repeat it again in future.

If you have kids let me know in the comment box how they are and what sort of their behaviour bothers you the most. I will read all your comments and reply you back.

10 Major problems people are facing

According to a survey done by an institute, there are 10 Major problems people are facing these days which are; 1. Lack of employment opportunities 2. Failure to succeed in education system 3. Body shaming 4. Substance abuse 5. Materialism pressure 6. Lack of affordable housing 7. Reverse stereotyping 8. 24/7 social networking pressure 9. Family/Relationship issues 10. Different crime

People cannot figure this out why it’s happening and what can be the solution for the same. A person once asked me that she cannot sleep during nights, some unwanted thoughts starts hover in her mind by the time she hits the bed and thoughts continue to kill her mind for hours and hours. She tried everything such as meditation, sleeping pills, medical consultation, affirmations but nothing worked for her. Thereafter, I thought for a while and adviced her to try these three things 1) Decluttering- clean your room every night, remove all unnecessary things from your wordrobe and from your room. It will bring positivity in your room as well as your mind. 2) Help at least one person every single day how so ever you can, either by money or by service or anyway you can just help. It will give relaxation and clam to your soul and mind, you will get a feeling of pride. 3) By the time you hit the bed; think of one thing best happened to you during the day. Not necessarily big thing, just tiny little good thing can bring happiness, enlightenment and an attitude of gratitude. Try these three magical things for next 30 days religiously, without thinking otherwise, believe me you will get phenomenal results out of it and if you find it useful after 30 day; make them your habits, your life will become smooth like never before. You will get peaceful days and nights. Worries, anxieties, fear will become things of the past. This is the common solution for any sort of problem people can apply them and get their amazing benefits. Actually, our mind has become a magnate to negative thoughts and all we need is to train it rewire it to think positive. Every thing a human brain can think is possible, hence, it is certainly possible to train our mind to be productive rather than distructive.

A Stubborn Mother!

In 1972, a girl born in a lower middle class family, blessed with 5 elder siblings and loving parents. There was no educational values in the family, all they knew is children are for helping to earn their bread and butter, the more kids you have the more money will come in the house. But the girl was totally different than other members, she loved getting education, however, a devastating day soon came in her life when her parents denied for sending her school after her fourth grade, and she got shattered, she requested to her parents “Mumma Papa, I will work hard, I will do everything whatever you will tell me to do, I will help in our family earning; i.e., brick making, but please let me study further, I love going school.” But her parents have already made the decision, so they did not accept the request😢. By the time she was 15, she got married and went to another house where everyone was the same like her family. After four years of marriage, she had a baby girl, and holding her girl in her arms; she had decided to provide her as much education as she can, she started living her dream in her daughter. Guys she is no one else, but my lovely Mother.😌

My life’s another phase began when we migated

My mother always treated me like a special child, alike other girls in a village, she never asked me for helping her fetching water from well, bringing fuel like dry woods and all, all she wanted is to focus on education. But I never understood why she was doing all, why she can’t treat me like other girls, I also wanted to do all those things; which my friends used to do. I vividly remember that day when she was out for her work, and some of my friends were going to bring woods from outside the village and I insisted to take me with them, so they did. I had no idea of doing so, but by seeing them I began gathering some woods and I got hert, and when my mother came back home; she got furious for the very first time. I still remember her words,” you are born to get educated and make people work for you, I don’t want you to become ordinary, because you are extraordinary” her words still gives me goose bumps 😊. I was merely 8 or 9 years old when it happened, so obviously I was not able to absorb it well, but one thing I decided while seeing my mother scolding and crying at the same time that I will keep on educating myself up until I die.https://internetlifestylehub.com/partners/

After couple of years, a heavy earthquake of 2001, we migrated to urban area; where everything was different, the environment, people, their attires, language, accents, Lifestyle, buildings, everything and another phase began to its fascinating journey. I remember one fine day when I got my 12th results and was thinking about next steps, we were set on a sofa and my uncle came to visit us. After a while, he told my father, ” now it’s enough sending a girl outside the house, non of our girls have seen the doors of college, she can not continue studying, for a girl it’s more than enough to know how to read and write”. My father also agreed with the same, buy my super mother? She was intact in her decision, hence she went against the entire family, elderly people, decision makers and all, she fought for my education, for her only dream.

That was life changing moment for me and I felt really proud and blessed to have such an amazing mother. I did MBA specialisation in finance, and now I am pursuing doctorate degree in human physiology and will continue educating myself.

All in all, a month always protects her kids for the better, whether children will understand or not. Girls generally starts realising after getting married, whereas boys stops understanding after getting married 😉.

How is your mother? Share your stories here. Stay tuned.

What is Destiny ?

Do you know what is Destiny?

Do you know how it works?

Are you one amongst those who believe in destiny and spend their entire life relying upon it?

Today I am going to shade a light in to it and I want you to be with me in this fascinating journey with full of positive energy and enthusiasm, are you ready? Let’s get started!

Since our childhood, we all have been conditioned by the term called destiny. What ever we get, what ever we become, what ever happened to us, whom so ever we meet, is just because of destiny.

Have you ever experienced the situation, when you have asked for something to the power greater than us wholeheartedly and had faith on it without thinking about how I will get it and when and where I will get it, just pure belief, and you got it? That’s called destiny, destiny is nothing but faith and belief.

When you set a goal and have faith that I will certainly achieve it without any doubt or worries or fear of failures; we definitely get success. Opportunities find it’s way to us. You might have heard that he/she has a golden touch, whatever he touches, turn to gold. It’s not luck my dear, it’s faith and belief that you have upon yourself, on the great power. Because you become what you think about. If you think of success; you will become success and if you think of failure you will get failure. It’s inflexible law of attraction and gravity, found by Sir Newton.

Earlier Nightingale compared our mind with a land. Land doesn’t care what we saw in it; whatever you saw you will get the same out of it. Have ever seen a rose coming out of marigold plant? Never right? In fact in our religious books also it has clearly written that “What you saw, so shall you reap” what you think will mould your life that way for sure. A little doubt in your capacity and capabilities will land you no where trust me. Tell me what have you learned from it and do you want me to write further on this topic? Actually that’s not it, I have more on this topic, but you have to wait for my next blog.